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            <p>&quot;I saw no temple in the city.&quot; (Revelation 21:22)</p><p>In the old Jerusalem, the heart of the city was the Temple, and the heart of the Temple was the throne, the <em>kapporeth</em>, or mercy-seat -- the empty space above the Ark of the Covenant, between two golden cherubim. It was the most potent sign of Israel&#39;s repudiation of idols, the great speaking absence between the images. In the middle of the life of the covenant people is the space where God is. To go and see God in Jerusalem is to look at the curtained holy place and know that behind it is the empty space from which mercy and promise come forth, the &quot;help from the sanctuary&quot; and the &quot;answer from heaven&quot; referred to in the psalms.<br />In our history, the only possibility of knowing God is to face, at least sometimes, the silence, the absence between the cherubim. Only by doing so can we learn to look to a God who is free to forgive and re-create because he is not bound by our imaginings. The mercy-seat is the place of reconciliation, because here we make no claim on God, place no restriction on him by our guilt-conditioned fancies, but only stand before him in trust and expectancy. While we still live in history, our images of God are always shaped by our past, our memory. How then shall we meet the God who is free from all this, free to give us a future, without the silence of the sanctuary, without the moments when we face the emptiness between words and images?<br />In the new Jerusalem, however, there is no temple, because its temple is the Lord God and the Lamb. The place of atonement and promise is no longer the hopeful silence between our words; it is the whole space of the city, the whole common life of the redeemed community. The light of presence is not a sanctuary lamp but the light in which the people of God see each other&#39;s faces. God is not a thing to be seen, not even a distant sun in the sky. God is the common air we breathe, the very possibility of seeing and moving. Clement of Alexandria spoke of the goal of our life as a coming to be at home with God -- a state where there is no gap between knowing ourselves, knowing each other, and knowing God. In this city beyond our history and our imagining, we shall not be the prisoners of our memory; even its pains and traumas will speak to us of God. Our language and our bodies will not be mechanisms for isolating ourselves, but will be the sharing of God with each other, the showing to one another of the divine freedom and creative mercy. &quot;His name shall be on their foreheads.&quot; We shall be to each other not idols but icons, effective signs of God&#39;s transfiguration of the world; and God will no longer be for us the eruption into our lives of an alien silence.<br />Meanwhile we live between the old Jerusalem and the new. We cannot be without that alien silence, the emptiness between the cherubim, yet we live in hope of a city where no space need be set aside for a mercy-seat. It is in the life and death of the Lamb of God that the silence culminates; it is in his life and death that we know there is no more need for a mercy-seat, and the veil of the sanctuary is torn down. To stand before Jesus in his action and passion is to stand, as did the ancient Israelites, before something that intrudes between our images and fancies. The merciful freedom of God steps into the world, becomes a physical hand outstretched, a name spoken, a meal shared, something resisting all categories we wish we could bring to it. A god? No. An angel? No? A virtuous man? No. A prophet? No, but a life whose acts are the acts of the Wisdom of God, the beginning of his ways. And at last, a silence not between the cherubim but between two thieves, and an absence between two white-clad figures in a burial vault.<br />Here is our altar and our sanctuary. This life and death and empty grave are the mercy-seat, the space of God&#39;s freedom. If we pray and wait before God in silence, then, as the greatest Christian mystics have so often said, that is a silence that can never forget or blot our the humanity of Jesus. Our prayer moves between the naked trust of listening for a God whose ways we cannot speak of, and a pondering of the particular history of Jesus&#39; words and deeds and suffering. All our prayer is nourished from these two sources -- silence and the reading of the gospel.<br />Jesus is our holy place, which also means that he is the promise of a new kind of holiness. Here is a life in which the detail, even the triviality, of a human story becomes the word and name of God to us, so that we know that the contours of a human story can be the presence of God. If we are so drawn into the words and acts and passion of Jesus that (as Paul said) his life and death are at work in us, we become sanctuaries to each other, holy places, mercy-seats. And at the last, when we come at last to be at home with God and the Lamb, this process will be complete; we shall speak God&#39;s name to each other in the very fact of our being. There will be no temples.<br />In concluding, there are two things worth remembering about the holy places of the Christian church. First...holy places are normally linked by history, dedication, or both to Christian <em>persons. </em>They are places that recall to us a life in whose detail and movement Christ has been made visible. Second, they are places whose structure and function cannot be understood apart from the reality of a <em>community</em> (which is how they differ from pagan temples, ancient and modern). They are for Christian persons assembled, and in that assembly we are learning the lessons of John&#39;s vision, learning to read the name of God on the foreheads of our neighbors, to see each other as signs of God&#39;s mercy and liberty. We are learning to see God face to face as we learn to see each other face to face in trust and hope. When we have learned to look to each other for signs of God&#39;s promise, then indeed, for the whole human world, &quot;there shall be no more night.&quot;</p><p>-- From <em>A Ray of Darkness</em> by Rowan Williams</p>
        
    
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<p>Several people have asked about it and here it is, the wedding.&#160; It was a special time full of memories.&#160; Our hearts are still so full of everything that has led up to the momentous event in their lives.&#160; And getting to have family and friends come in for the wedding is literally icing on the cake (which was rich fudge, by the way).&#160; Here are some of the photos from our visit...</p>
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<p>Thursday night Christina and Vern...NO...it&#39;s really Tylor playing a trick and planning the BIG surprise, fly in!&#160; What fun!</p>

    
    
    
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<p>Does everyone have change for your metro ticket?&#160; Mariann acted as hostess/tour guide for the group on Friday.&#160; Friday night we all went out to eat tacos.&#160; It was like we were having a rehearsal dinner of sorts, only without the rehearsal.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>Sunday afternoon was the perfect time for the Turibus and a lazy drive around the downtown area of Mexico City.</p>
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 <div>Of late I&#39;ve been spending my mornings and early afternoons at the little diamond of a restaurant here to the left. No, I haven&#39;t spent all my money there and become the tavern&#39;s personal mascot -- rather I&#39;ve become the cook! Yes, that&#39;s right, I&#39;m the newest cook among the idiosyncratic crew of Flabby&#39;s Tavern in Schnitzelburg, one of the old, authentic and not yet gentrified neighborhoods of Louisville. I&#39;m pretty psyched about the gig. Not only do I get to spend many a waking hour at what I determined to be one of the best and most Austrian-like pubs in the city I call home once again, but I&#39;m also learning to cook and prepare all sorts of unhealthy foods! On a daily basis I get to prepare meatloaf, mashed potatoes, schnitzel, buffalo wings, a number of dishes involving oysters, burgers, fries, onion rings, german potato salad and bratwurst! Just about all of it&#39;s deep-fried. <br />Now, mind you, I know better than to eat much of this very delicious food, lest I grow too flabby to fit into my apron, but my number one recommendation would definitely be the pretzels. I honestly don&#39;t think a better pretzel exists. <br />Much of today was devoted to slicing up whole chickens for the weekend special, which includes half a chicken, two veggies, and let&#39;s not forget the oyster shooter! A raw oyster shot with Worcestershire and bloody mary sauce. As Flabby&#39;s puts it, it&#39;s the original aphrodisiac. <br /><br />So if anyone&#39;s hungry come lunch time next week, I&#39;ll be serving it up right at Flabby&#39;s every day of the week. Come out and taste my cooking!<br />
    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        





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        <title>Multiple Choice</title>
    
    
    
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            <p>The following video was taken:</p>
<p>a.&#160; at a clandestine meeting of the rebels in Chiapas</p>
<p>b.&#160; at an uprising against the government in the Zocalo</p>
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<p>Answer:&#160; At the Polytecnich University.&#160; These are chemistry students who have just completed their years of work and will be receiving their degrees in a few days.&#160; The tradition is that the chemists sew together their lab coats, hang the BIG lab coat from the building, have a party, then burn the giant lab coats (one for each class) as they dance around the bonfire.&#160; Sam reported that they began chanting things about graduating but gradually changed to, &quot;We&#39;re unemployed!&#160; We&#39;re unemployed!&quot;</p>
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<p>When Mariann returned home in May, she brought her friend Pam home with her.&#160; Pam wanted to see where Mariann had grown up and experience all things Mexican.&#160; She practiced her Spanish on anything that moved and tasted and smelled everything else.&#160; It was fun sharing it all with her and seeing Mexico from a visitor&#39;s eyes once again.&#160; She fit right into our family, sharing in the Despedida and Wedding shower.&#160; The day before she left we went to the floating gardens of Xochimilco in southern Mexico City.

    
    
    
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        <title>Waking to anxiety...</title>
    
    
    
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            <p>that dream, that horrid dream<br />was it my mind puking remnants of waking thoughts?<br />was it prophetic?</p><p>really the only reason i have an issue with it is because i&#39;m scared to death to experience those emotions again, <br />or to have the same experiences again...</p><p>i always seem to have these dreams when the grey light from an open window wakes me and won&#39;t go away<br />or when i&#39;ve woken up just a nib too much and fall back asleep<br />which is what makes me think this is all really about my mind<br />&quot;...but what if it wasn&#39;t me&quot;, my mind says...bastard.</p><p><br />gawd, blogs are so much like &quot;dear diary&quot; sometimes...<br />but sometimes i just need the release<br /> </p>
        
    
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        <title>First Home</title>
    
    
    
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<p>The painting was finished last night.&#160; This afternoon the&#160;movers are coming to move their&#160;few large pieces that can&#39;t be moved in the car: a beautiful HUGE black leather sofa (gift of a friend), two bookcases, a mattress (same friend) and some boxes.&#160; Several friends have gone together to order their little fridge.&#160; It&#39;s all coming together.&#160;Come Saturday night they should have their first home ready and waiting to receive them.&#160;</p>
        
    
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        <title>La Despedida / Saying Goodbye to Being Single</title>
    
    
    
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        <published>2008-06-01T02:50:00Z</published>
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<p>Every Thursday morning Nuria Gomez picks me up at 8:30 am to drive through the Mexico&#160;City traffic to go to Women of the Word.&#160; Two Thursdays ago, she told me that once a year she goes out of town to have some &quot;alone&quot; time to read and write.&#160; &quot;Why don&#39;t you come with me?&quot;</p>
<p>Well, we didn&#39;t get much done in the way of writing, did do a little reading.&#160; But what we did do was talk.&#160; We talked in the kitchen, in the living room, in the hall, in the car, in Starbucks, in La Trainera (fish restaurant), in the grocery store.&#160; We talked in the pool, on the beach and on the rooftop patio, in lawn chairs and in the hot tub.&#160; We shared our stories and stood in awe at what God had done in our lives.&#160; And asked lots of questions.</p>
<p>&quot;What does one do at a &quot;despedida?&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;How do you spell...a lot of English words.&#160; Why don&#39;t you choose one sound...just ONE sound for a vowel and stick with it (this was always followed by lots of laughter).</p>
<p>What do you call those flowering trees?&#160; bushes?&#160; flowers?</p>
<p>How do you say in English...como se dice en español?</p>
<p>Do you know what this fish is in English?</p>
<p>We talked about the difference in how parents in our respective countries think about when a child should leave home.&#160; We talked about different customs, what we like and dislike.&#160; We swapped stories of our children when they were little and Nuria told me the latest cute thing her grandson had done or said.&#160; We talked about them a lot as we were driving down to Acapulco which is something I&#39;ve noticed that women do when they leave home for even a night away.&#160; It&#39;s a kind of ritual we do to prepare ourselves for&#160;our absence from them, like a long good&#39;bye even after we&#39;ve kissed and waved farewell.&#160;&#160; It&#39;s like giving ourselves permission to leave for a short time.&#160; We prayed for them during the&#160;five days were were away and in the end of our trip as we drove back into Mexico City we got the calls giving us the good news that Octavio had passed all his exams to graduate from high school and Nena passed her intense exam that very day that completed her seven years of medical school.&#160;&#160;I can&#39;t think of a better conclusion to this special time we spent together in Acapulco.&#160; Thank You, Father.</p>
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        <title>Two More Weeks</title>
    
    
    
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        <published>2008-06-01T02:16:09Z</published>
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<p>Things are beginning to happen so fast that I may not be able to keep up.&#160;</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;May 24, 2008, these lovely ladies were hostesses for a bridal shower for Sam and Shadai in the lovely home of Isiah and Tammie Parnell.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>It was lovely, warm, welcoming and delicious!&#160; Old friends and new gathered to celebrate the coming marriage of Sam and Shadai.&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
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<p>&#160;I shall never forget this kindness.&#160; I will never forget the warm welcome Elisabet and Josue received.&#160; They were quite nervous beforehand thinking that everyone would</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;be speaking English all afternoon but everyone present was bilingual or knew some Spanish and every guest spent some time chatting with them.&#160; My heart was full with the love shown by our friends.&#160; To see them enjoying themselves was another gift given our family by our friends.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
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<p>&#160;</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>Thank you dear friends for your presence, for taking the time to celebrate with our children this special event&#160; and the beginning of their lives together.</p>
        
    
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